Hate and Jealousy

So these are two words I dislike and try not to have in my vocabulary.

Why? Well let me tell you.

Hate - I was often told by my sister in law that it was a strong word and she is right. Do I really hate someone? Hatred is often associated with feelings of anger and a disposition towards hostility. Don't get me wrong I get angry but hearing that word even jokingly I don't like. I prefer to say and hear dislike.

Jealousy - Jealousy often consists of a combination of presenting emotions such as anger, resentment, inadequacy, helplessness and disgust. So when I hear someone say I am so jealous? or they ask me if I am jealous of something someone is doing I am taken off guard. Really, do friends resent the accomplishments that their friends are able to make wether it is by going on a trip, a day off work to spend at the Magic Kingdom, purchase of a new home, or car? I hope people know that I am happy for the accomplishments my family and friends have and enjoy. 

So I am grateful that I avoid to use these two words when expressing myself. I know I may sound a little self righteous but that is not the point of this post. Rather it is to make you think twice before using these words as well as challenge you to not use them. Try it, you may see a difference in how you see things and how others see you.